Tell Me That You Love Me 2023 K Drama Episode 5-6

Dec 14, 2023

We might as well get it out of the way and start with SONG SEO-KYUNG (Kim Ji-hyun). She’s the new director of the art museum where all our characters are now working. But we’ve heard her name before. She’s the woman who was caught in the fire that haunts Jin-woo’s past. The good news is: she didn’t die in the fire, as I’d feared. The bad news is: it looks like she’s still in love with Jin-woo.

In flashback, we learn that Seo-kyung and Jin-woo fell in love at university, where they were both in the art department. Seo-kyung was assigned to be Jin-woo’s interpreter during classes. It was her job to take notes for him — and she was already comfortable with sign language because her father is deaf also. She was the first person to treat Jin-woo like he was “normal” (in his words) by being friendly but also teasing him, instead of being overly kind or wary around him.

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 5-6

We see their first kiss and young Jin-woo is adorable. (Hey! It’s the peach farmer from Once Upon a Small Town! Nice to see you again, Baek Sung-chul.). But Seo-kyung has an issue (yet to be clarified). She keeps hearing someone whistling in a menacing way, even when it seems that no one is there. We see her in present day, terrified in a parking lot, hearing whistling when footsteps are behind her. And then we see her in college, hearing it repeatedly, and even pulling back from Jin-woo’s kiss because of it.

When the two reunite for the first time in decades, Mo-eun is also there. Seo-kyung approaches casually, asking how Jin-woo has been, and he’s got panic and pain all over his face. Mo-eun observes it all and understands there’s something powerful between these two. When she asks how they know each other, Seo-kyung says they’re friends and Jin-woo simply nods in agreement, so caught off guard by seeing this long-lost woman.

But our leads are still pressing along in finding their way to each other and so far Seo-kyung hasn’t presented a real threat. She looks unhappy when she sees Jin-woo and Mo-eun together — and offers to help Mo-eun with sign language (which feels like she’s trying to butt her way between them), but we’ll have to see how that develops. As of now, Mo-eun is doing just fine on her own — so fine, in fact, that we end our episodes with a confession.

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 5-6></p>  <p>To get there, we start from the play that closed our episodes last week. Mo-eun is a success and Jin-woo leaves the theater when he sees her surrounded by her praising co-stars afterward. She follows him outside to thank him, and tells him she feels comforted because he always tries his best not to miss anything. “You’re a good listener. It feels like you listen to my heart, not my voice.” This she signs without saying anything (usually she speaks and signs together) and there is something profound in the silence. </p>  <p>Not only has Jin-woo shown up for her play (which, as it turns out, Ji-yoo invited him to, not Mo-eun), but he’s also interested enough to ask for a copy of the script, so he can understand more fully what it was about. I love that the drama is giving them this kind of artistic connection. </p>  <p><img decoding=

To give the setup, we have two deaf characters, both who communicate in sign language, and two hearing characters, only one of whom really knows enough sign language to understand and translate. Ki-hyun acts as the go-between, speaking and signing, so everyone can understand each other. The atmosphere is jovial and light, but it’s also one of the most complex scenes I’ve ever seen in regard to how communication happens when one person doesn’t know the language of the others (and this is true for not knowing a spoken language as well).

So-hee signs. Ki-hyun says out loud what she’s signing. Mo-eun looks between So-hee’s face and Ki-hyun’s to show she’s paying attention to both speaker and translator. At the same time, Jin-woo watches Mo-eun as she tries to understand and integrate with his friends — in a group where she is the outsider instead of him. We see his feelings brewing here as she attempts to gain access to his world.

But on top of that, we have the actual content of what’s being said. So-hee’s parents are not deaf but don’t know much sign language, so she can’t communicate with them well. Ki-hyun has to translate between her and her parents, including when she’s saying something negative about him – a fact that makes everyone at the table laugh.

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 5-6></p>  <p>It’s a multi-layered, true-to-life, impressively captured sequence, that gives us a ton of information (through action) about who our characters are, what they struggle with, and how they try to overcome their struggles. (And, intentional or not, it spoke to me for its similarity with immigration experiences, when one doesn’t fully understand the language. It’s rare to see this situation conveyed with such compassion.) </p>  <p>This meeting does leave a glaring question though. If Jin-woo has a model for how relationships can work between someone who can hear and someone who can’t, why is he so afraid of having a relationship?</p>  <p>We don’t learn the answer until near the end, when Jin-woo tells Ki-hyun that when he sees Ki-hyun’s love for So-hee, he’s put off because he understands what a hearing person would have to endure for him. Ki-hyun counters that he can do anything for So-hee because he loves her. But Jin-woo comes back with: “You can say you love her because you can do anything for her.” Oof. So, the fundamental thing our hero needs to get past is feeling like he has nothing to offer someone he loves. </p>  <p><img decoding= Tell Me That You Love Me 2023 K Drama Episode 5-6

Oh this scene! I want them together so badly! This is a story where I would be satisfied to just see their mundane daily life together as a couple. Her at his studio. Him at her plays. All the ways they’d try to communicate — and all their little flubs amidst all their tenderness. I’m not even the one in the relationship and I’m imagining their future. No wonder she’s confessing already!

Also, the direction is astounding. I’m in love with our hero and that’s thanks to the flipping back and forth between being in his shoes and being in our heroine’s shoes as she sees him. There’s so much empathy flying around. And I love our heroine too. She’s open and curious and brave. If any pair deserves happiness together, it’s these two. Please Drama, give it to them so I can be happy too!

Tell Me That You Love Me 2023 K Drama Episode 5-6

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